Bagi gw 20xx年8月29日 adalah tanggal yang berarti ohohohohoh
Dua tahun yll gw diwisuda tanggal segitu, tapi ada satu harapan yang dinanti namun tak kunjung muncul jua hingga dua tahun ini... Sepertinya masih harus sabar menanti... man jadda wa jadda :)
How to Deal With Unrequited Love | eHow.com
Being in love with somebody who doesn't love you can be a heartbreaking experience. Follow these steps to move past the pain and get on with your life.
Accept the fact that he doesn't feel the same way about you. If you continue to believe that there is a chance he will eventually love you, you will never move on.
Understand the reasons why she doesn't feel the same way. Understanding the reasons for the unrequited love will help you to move past the situation and get over her.
Stay positive. Don't let this situation cause you to have bitter feelings toward finding someone who loves you. It will lead you toward becoming a bitter and unhappy person.
Get your mind off of him. Spend more time with friends and family, and surround yourself with those who love and care about you.
Keep busy. Throw yourself into your work or hobbies. If you don't have any hobbies there are plenty to choose from so it won't be difficult finding one.
Focus on your future. Nobody has ever moved forward by constantly looking back. Focusing on your future will make you take your focus off her.
Remind yourself of your good qualities. Just because one person does not love you does not mean you are not a good person. Remind yourself of that as often as necessary.
Go out on dates. It may be difficult at first because your heart may still belong to him but the worst that could happen is that you meet someone you like to hang out with. You never know, you may meet someone you really like that feels the same way about you.
Appreciate yourself. Realize that you don't need anyone to validate you and that you are still the wonderful person you were before the breakup. Remind yourself that most relationships don't work out and that your breakup isn't unusual. Work on gaining independence so that you can be just as happy alone as when you're in a relationship. That will make you more attractive.
If you've been left before, think of how you overcame that pain. You did it once, you can do it again.
Don't feed the monster. After a week or two of grief, stop yourself from indulging conversations about your lost love or from obtaining information about them. In time, your grief will fade on its own, provided you let it.
Ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with anyone who doesn't love me back?" You deserve better. You may discover you are repeating a pathology from your childhood, clinging to someone who doesn't appreciate you in an effort to win the approval you could not get from your parents. Seek professional help to dig deeper if you suspect this is true.
Apa apaan seh, gw cape deh nyuruh2 orang buat wujudin keinginan gw...
Bete,,,, bisa aja seh gw handle sendiri cuman kan itu ga baik... weleh
kepada semua teman pada umumnya dan pelanggan EshuCell pada khususnya:
Walaupun hati tidak sebening XL dan secerah MENTARI. Banyak khilaf yang buat FREN kecewa, kuminta SIMPATI-mu untuk BEBAS-kan dari ROAMING dosa dan kita semua hanya bisa mengangkat JEMPOL kepadaNYA yang selalu membuat kita HOKI dalam mencari kartu AS selama kita hidup karena kita harus SMART dan FLEXI-bel untuk menerima semua pemberianNYA dan menjadi MATRIX kehidupan ini.. Dan semoga amal kita tidak ESIA²
Taqobalallahu mina wa minkum :)
Mohon maaf lahir batin :D
hari jumat itu sorenya hujan gede banget... gw sangsi bisa rapat ga ya di DPRa...
pas ditanya ternyata rapatnya jam 19:30, ah mungkin dah selesai ujannya..
gw emang dah bilang telat sih datengnya en then, br siap jam 8 kurang...
brangkat.. jalanan sepi coz abis ujan,, di jalan kecil gw liat kucing lagi manjat2 tempat sampah kaleng cat besar.. ternyata dia lagi nolongin temennya yg masuk kaleng itu tapi ga bisa keluar
subhannallah.... ini adalah petunjuk, ketika kita menolong saudara kita yg dalam kesusahan.. maka... (u know lah)
dan ketika sampai di lokasi, yap..! tak ada satupun yg hadir sampe gw nunggu j.9...
pengorbanan...!! ketika kita terjun ke sebuah medan yang tak biasa kita jalani....
padahal gw pj acara hr ahad, dan itu blm jelas rundown acaranya... sementara perangkat acara blm gw bikin...
ya sudah, sabtu gw bolos jam kedua aja,,, ngajak habi dan murni serta icha buat bantuin 6 spanduk, >100 ronce2... ii waw.. Allah mah pasti akan mendatangkan 'burung ababil' nya :)
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